So when I try to start teleflow server, or server service start/stop I get a little command prompt that says access denied. I am the admin on the server so I don't understand what is going on.....Attached is the error

Lol so I only had to right click it and run as administrator..... anyways if anyone could tell me what I need to do next to get it up and running that would be great. I tried teleflow monitor but I can't connect to the server.

To avoid using the command line start/stop and having to right-click to run as admin, just use service control manager to start/stop the "TeleFlow Server" service. Once you wish to leave it running all the time, be sure to set its Startup Type to Automatic so it starts with Windows.

In any 64-bit Windows, "localhost" may not evaluate in such a way it can work with the TFMonitor. Try changing the host to 127.0.0.1 before clicking OK on the Connect dialog.